Do you feel loved?

I'm frustrated, fed-up and annoyed by the fact that men and women can't have an open dialogue as to what the f*ck we mean by love. People turn quasi-mystic on the subject but, I'm going to be as down to the earth as possible. I don't love my relatives, most of the time I'd rather they not exist simply for the lowering of the numbers of people who I view as *ssholes believing that I should be in any way obligated to them. I'm sure I'm not alone in that sentiment either. I don't claim to love anyone I've never met and have no ability to know their character. I can enjoy the works of the past but, that's where they are and I am in the now so, I can only appreciate them-I can't love that which was dead long before my birth. I don't love a country in the abstract, it leads to all sorts of masochistic notions that are senseless as they can be violent. Now that we've clarified that this is about personal love or more honestly from the male perspective amore-passion. For the male, it begins either from lust or respect, sometimes though rarely both. True fortune strikes when you're attracted to someone you respect. I've met a lot of pretty girls that haven't two brain cells firing at the same time in an hour. It gets worse from there, you can have looks in a potential mate and as soon as they open their mouth and sound escapes the man feels late for the exit door. Now to be fair there are problems with femme that command respect, fraternization policies/aesthetics/ or again the opinions that strike total revolt into the male causing the flight response. I've even met those who could have had both working for them if they could extend their logic a little farther and not turn themselves into the subject of a lampoon of hypocrasy/stupidity. The way I figure it, the survival of the species is either the most random of accidental chance or an ontological proof of miracles.

Think about it this way: Man enters a nightclub, of available random femmes you must eliminate from that pool those in a relationship; lesbians, the teasers, bigots, and morons. Now that you've gotten that far you're still dependent on the whims of what femmes are left in the room which can be the most arbitrary choices made on the slimmest of evidence. So is it any wonder why men become cynical and eventually stop caring about their lack of prospects? Yes, ladies there are times when Men lack all hope concerning sex or romance and give up on the idea entirely, this time can last for years or even to the end of life.